Last Thursday
evening a storm front blew through here with gusts of up to 40 mph.
The trees and shrubs were thrashing around and the temperature
dropped over 20 degrees. The sky was dark and rumbling with thunder
but the rain didn't make it this far.
Well, we had a
rain of a different sort as the wind shook loose all the dead
branches out of the trees. Since we had to spend the day in the city
yesterday today we play 52 pick-up.
Today it's nice
and cool out. It's enticing me out doors. There is so much work
that needs to be done out there besides picking up the debris from
the storm but collecting pecans is not one of the chores. No new
pecans, green or otherwise, have fallen for weeks and I can't see any
up in the trees. A slim crop this year from the drought and the
squirrels seem to have gotten every one. I won't miss shelling
pecans night after night but I'll sorely miss the nuts.
The work drought
continues as well but I have renewed hope that it may lift soon. The
art director from the church that has the two proposals has been in
touch and hopes to have good news for us before the year is out.
Later...
I spent most the
day outside, flitting from one little task to another. The day is
just too nice to be indoors. Among other things we raised up and
leveled the front yard bird bath. It wasn't high enough for me to be
able to see the birds from my end of the couch.
We keep our eye
out for our neighbor Frank. He's 83 I think. His wife and life
companion for 64 years has been sick, in and out of hospitals and
nursing homes for the last year or so, and she died last week. He's
sort of lost. One of his grandsons is staying with him for now and
his son comes over every day. One of us tries to go over and chat
every day when we see him out in the yard.
He's always been
out in his yard a lot tending his wonderful food garden or any of the
many fruit trees he has or the roses that she loved, mending and
doing repairs but now I see him out there just sitting sometimes. I
went over to visit the other day.
I don't want to
be inside, he tells me. I guess inside is too painful right now
since she's not there. She's not there but her presence is all
around him. Outside is better.
The next day...
It's downright
chilly out there today and the morning is full of birdsong. Hard to
believe just last week we had temps in the high 90s. This week mid
to high 80s and still dry as a bone. I've never experienced a year
so devoid of humidity here as I have this year. My aging skin which
has always been on the dry side now looks much like parchment. Or
perhaps leather with all the fine and not so fine wrinkles and cross
hatching.
Another day to
be spent outside after that long miserably hot summer.
Another day to
watch for my neighbor Frank.
you are sweet to look out for your neighbor as he is most certainly hurting...
ReplyDeletei have been using a lot of lotion this summer too to try to keep the skin hydrated. i just want rain, but my hopes are beginning to fade as the year gets later. we might have to wait until feb/mar now...
You write beautifully.
ReplyDeleteKindness to the neighbor when he needs it so much, thank you. I can't imagine how lost he is.
I shall hope for rain and work for all those who need it.
A day to be outside here, too.
ReplyDeleteI can't even imagine what it would be like to lose a partner of 64 years. I hope I never know. Let me go first.
Our next door neighbor lost his wife awhile back as well. But because he is next door not across the street we don't see him come outside. We do try to get over to visit with him at least once a week. You are a dear to do so. I close my eyes and in a few years I hope someone visits with either SM or me.
ReplyDeleteRain, for so many it is the thing of wishful thinking and dreaming I fear. Crazy insulting weather this year.
Oma LInda
In all my years here we have never turned the heat on at the 1st of October. It is usually closer to November. It got down to almost freezing last night, so on it went.
ReplyDeleteThis has been a weird, weird weather year for everyone.
I hope Frank will be okay. That is so sad and I can only imagine how much he misses her. He has good friends and family.
Started with a sweater this morning, lots of color changes. I had the winds here, over 30 mph gusts. I had a good bonfire with the debris.
ReplyDeleteAnd so it goes, one day after the other . . .
ReplyDeleteYou make me grateful for our humidity. Usually I just hate it but when I think about my skin it definitely does help. I'm happy fall is here also.
ReplyDeleteHopefully the church work will come through very soon.
perhaps it'll rain all winter long and then the sun will be a friend you'd wish would come calling. it's so hard to know how all these events will balance out - and how long it will take to arrive at the balance. in the same way as we live with people, are filled by them and then they are gone and the emptiness of their absence balances the fullness of their presence. steven
ReplyDeleteWhen somebody you love is suddenly gone, there is no such thing as balance, no in-betweeness. They leave a big space. They are here and then not here.
ReplyDeleteYou are good to be aware of your neighbor's pain, so good.
So sorry you didn't get any of that rain. Of course, with all the thunder and lightning, we only got .12", so there you are. There are mutterings about a change in the patterns next week. We'll see. An inch a day for a week would be a lovely start.
ReplyDeleteThere are absences that can't be measured, holes that can't be filled. Still, we reach out. Thank you for doing that for your neighbor.
64 years. oh. My heart skips a beat. his must barely beat at all.
ReplyDeleteIt was a horrible summer for you, yes. It's even raining in Tanzania, a place where they experience terrible drought pretty much every year. Where is the rain for your corner of the landscape? Where??
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to Frank...glad you are tending his heart!!
ReplyDeleteI hope you get good news soon about that possible project. Me..well I am still waiting as well.
Have an art show coming up in Nov. So we will see
Hugging you
SueAnn
I'm glad Frank has you guys to help watch over him. I got married too late to have a 64 year marriage (I'd be 90 & Mike would be 95 - which I guess could happen).
ReplyDeleteI'm glad the temps have cooled off even without the rain. Here's hoping your work does the inverse!