Friday, February 13, 2026

the day didn't go quite as planned


I’ve taken all the plants inside back outside with the exception of the plumerias and the cereus in the garage. I’ll wait a little longer for those but it is definitely spring. The birds are certainly convinced, the mockingbirds and cardinals singing their little hearts out and there’s a little wren poking around in the pot plants just outside the open door. It’s time for me to get out there and turn the dirt and get ready to plant for a spring garden. Not today though. I want to finish Robin’s blanket and it’s supposed to rain later and supposedly definitely tomorrow which is good if it does because we really need rain.


Well, my day didn’t go as planned but that’s ok. I had told Paisleigh yesterday I would spend time with her today and I’m thinking between 3:30 and 5 but Mikey brought her over about 11 this morning so instead of sewing Paisleigh and I played with a toy putting colored squares in the indicated spot in a grid to complete a picture, drew with the sidewalk chalk on the driveway...her apple tree, cats, and hopscotch (I added the numbers in the order that the 'squares' appeared)...

played hide and seek, blew some of the whistles in my whistle collection, she ate blueberries while I swept my bedroom and studio room/office, walked the dog while she rode her bike down to the other end of the street and back, and then I took her back over to her dad about 2 1/2 hours later. I did get a bit of sewing done on Robin’s blanket (still have to add the blanket binding and the ribbon trim).

The first tai chi class was Tuesday evening at Hesed House, outside under the pergola behind the welcome center. It was a pretty large group, 15 - 20 people showed up. The first thing she did was have us stand perfectly still, relaxed with good posture for five minutes with our eyes closed, just being, not thinking, a simple exercise on maintaining balance, basically the mountain pose in yoga. She recommends us doing this every day for five or ten minutes. During the hour she led us through maybe seven or eight movements, I didn’t really count same as I didn’t count the number of people. It’s a slow mindful practice, elegant even. I’ll definitely continue going to the class and make an attempt to incorporate it in my mornings, tai chi on my yoga class days, yoga on the other days. Wednesday morning I spent my five minutes standing still with my eyes closed and was surprised when the alarm went off, thought it would feel much longer with my mind wondering if it’s been five minutes yet. Instead I focused on what I was doing, felt a little like learning to drive, a continuous series of small, in this case tiny, corrections, slight swaying trying to find that sweet spot of being perfectly balanced. Then I did ten repetitions of the few basic movements I could remember, sort of like when I first started doing yoga consistently. I would go to class and then the next day at home trying to remember what we did and how we did it. Today I did both, five movement of tai chi, though I’m not sure I have one of them exactly right, and most of my daily yoga routine.


Thursday being SHARE day I did neither tai chi nor yoga. It’s all I can manage to shower, have a cup of coffee, have breakfast with my second cup of coffee (black, that you very much), and get there by nine. I actually got there a little early so I could make sure my station was stocked and the ladies up front had already let the folks in that were waiting outside. So it was a busy day with mostly large food orders. It was supposed to be a food delivery day from the regional food bank but the town finally started repaving the alley (one big pot hole after another) that the truck comes down to deliver and the people picking up their food orders, half nicely newly paved, the other have completely torn up so it was closed. Jan put off delivery until next week. And apparently, we are no longer getting our Elder volunteers from the Mormon church here. Elder being an oxymoron since the boys are 18/19. They haven’t shown up for two weeks now.


My night to fix dinner and I have no idea what so I’d best get in there and figure it out.



18 comments:

  1. Robin’s blanket looks wonderful as do Paisleigh’s creations. I’d love to see someone do THAT hopscotch. Wonder what happened to the elders. Do they still get their merit badge?

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    1. She did jump through it but not in the order of the numbers. I mean, who could, right?

      I don't know why they haven't shown up. Perhaps they got new marching orders from the church.

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  2. Paisleigh is an artist-in-training and she's got the best teacher. I'm with Mitchell about the hopscotch though.
    Yay, you on the Tai Chi AND yoga. You're serious.
    I need to get things going in my garden too. I think I'm overwhelmed.
    By the way- those elders can perform priesthood blessings because they're of having-a-penis gender whereas women, no matter how old or worthy cannot.

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    1. Well, yes. I want to be able to wipe my own ass until the day I die.

      Nothing says fear louder than marginalizing women.

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    2. Codex: Ellen...lol. new goal in life.

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    3. An admirable goal as far as I'm concerned.

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  3. Wonder what's going on with the Mormons? Did you all piss them off somehow? :)

    The blanket is looking great! And the tai-chi sounds interesting. I've never done anything like that but I've seen people doing it in parks and on beaches.

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    1. Don't know. I guess the church sent them elsewhere. Maybe they weren't spending enough time doing their proselytising. They like coming to SHARE because they would leave with a lot of food. The church gives them a bare minimum for that.

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  4. I love that blanket! Many years ago (20?) Mike got a Tai Chi video and we tried it. He was pretty good, but I could NOT hold any of the poses for more than a few minutes. Which meant I really should have worked harder at it. I've always had terrible balance. I blame my parents for giving me piano lessons instead of ballet (although we used to cackle at the idea of me being in a dance class of any kind - ha!).

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    1. I finished it yesterday, added the binding and ribbon. Took me all day, mostly the pinning. And one of the corners gave me fits, would not cooperate.

      The only pose in tai chi this woman had us hold was the standing still. It's yoga that I have to hold the pose. I had one one instructor that would make us hold every pose for a full minute. I was younger and stronger then.

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  5. Codex: Elder? They're kids. What happened.
    Well. looks like she enjoys grandma. You could make boomba rice;)

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    1. Yes, they're kids doing their two years of required service. I refuse to call them Elder. they don't even use their given name with each other but refer to themselves as 'Elder (last name)' around us anyway. I have no idea why they have not shown up the last two weeks. I suppose the church has given them different orders.

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  6. I wonder if you got some of that rain that rolled through. The system was a fast mover, but plenty packed with lightning and thunder. I laughed at that hopscotch outline. I've heard of hopscotching through life, but I must say that outline perfectly reflected the kind of hopscotching I do! My cardinals and wren are already singing this morning, so they made it through last night's storms: very cheering.

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    1. It rained intensely for about 15 minutes and then moved on but I'm grateful for what we did get. I don't know how much as the glass tube on my rain gauge broke during one of the freezes.

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  7. Codex: You alright?

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    1. Yes, why do you ask? Don't get me wrong, I'm grateful for your concern just curious about what caused it.

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    2. Codex: Just a feeling. You also didn't comment back.

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    3. Perhaps you didn't see my response about the Elders. Except for the one about wiping my own butt which I did't think needed a response but I have now.

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