Tuesday, May 27, 2025

puny garden, crazy hair, rain!, and other stuff


My spring garden hasn’t done diddly squat this year. The tomatoes bloomed but didn’t set fruit and the ones that did set more than half rotted before they ripened.


Still have some green ones on the plants but they aren’t making new ones. I got two or three yellow squash off three plants which have all died. Green beans did well enough but they’re about done. Cucumber finally started blooming but none of them are fruit bearing flowers. Of the other five plants two more finally started growing but not blooming. Onions seem to be doing alright but they won’t be ready for a while yet. Growing flowers is easy, growing food is hard! I finally went to the market down the road today and got enough local, well, hill country, tomatoes to make one batch of tomato sauce. I’ll be able to get some sweet corn from my neighbor’s brother soon which I will put up in the freezer for the rest of the year. Sigh. Growing food is going to become more important. My paltry amount of groceries this week cost $115 (excluding the tomatoes). 


Paisleigh was here Sunday, more chalk art. She likes for you to draw around her hands and feet and she colors them in. We did her body too and she helped with her crazy hair. And hearts, always hearts. I didn’t last long in the heat even though we were in the shade. I’d already worked on the fence some and we had played in the shop with all the Barbie stuff before we came over here but I don’t have any toys in the house and she was ready to see her daddy so I walked her back across the street and then came in. It is horribly hot and still only just May. I’ll need to get some toys for her to play with in the house. 


Rain! We finally got some much needed rain! It got very windy Monday afternoon and a small shower followed. Cooled it down enough to walk Minnie. It has been so hot and there is no shade until much later on the streets I walk that I just haven’t. And then Monday night a tremendous thunderstorm came through, lightning, thunder, hard rain; about 3” worth so said the rain gauge this morning. Of course that also means I got no sleep last night because of a certain neurotic little dog but I did make good progress in the book I’m reading.


Took my shower this morning to see a new resident in the bathroom. It’s a wolf spider and even though it’s missing a leg I expect it to earn its keep. I’m more curious about how it got in there than freaked out. Spiders don’t bother me and wolf spiders are way less annoying than all the little jumping spiders and daddy long legs that think my house is the perfect place to live.


Some more of the local wildlife though these were outside: a red underwing moth and an anole cruising on a tomato plant.


Of course yesterday, Monday, was Memorial Day and I did not, like I did not all through Trump’s first term, put out my flag because that man and his MAGAts make a mockery of the American flag. I do honor those who gave their lives protecting this country and fighting to preserve our democracy and our Constitution but I will not do that by putting out a flag that represents a man and administration that does not honor those men and women; a man who mocks our fallen and calls them losers; a man who never served because he used his father’s wealth and influence to escape the draft; a man who uses his speeches and social media presence not to honor those who gave their lives so that we may live in peace but to brag and lie about himself and air his petty grievances. I cannot put out a flag that no longer represents what that flag has stood for. I don’t think that country even exists right now.  


26 comments:

  1. We're getting more tomatoes and cucumbers this year than we have in a long while but the tomatoes aren't knocking anyone's socks off with deliciousness. They're okay. Per usual, the Cherry Golds are the most flavorful.
    I always seem to have a spider in my bathroom too. That's fine with me. I hope we get your rain storm. Although we did get some a few days ago it surely did not last long enough.
    I bet Paisleigh loves spending time with you.

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    1. I'm still not getting any fruit bearing flowers on my cucumbers.

      My daughter had come by last Saturday with Paisleigh and so P helped me with the peach cobbler I was making. Slippery, she said when we were putting the peeled sliced peaches on top. Yep, slippery.

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  2. Codex:
    Last paragraph. Yup. Pretty much.

    Friends are having problems with vegetable gardens as well. Do greenhouses work?

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    1. Not down here, it gets hot plenty fast enough. We don't really need them as we have two growing seasons spring and fall gardens.

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  3. I tried tomatoes, once. That was it for growing food. This country is over, I think. He's out fundraising. It's not for re-election, or a PAC, it's for him. Who does that?

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    1. Codex: He's always been like that. He's also in the progressive stage of dementia so he's grabbing what he can.

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    2. I read recently that his goal is to be the richest man in the world when he dies. Doesn't give a fuck about governing, doesn't care who or what he destroys, it's just a big money grab for him.

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  4. Paisleigh chalk art is splendid. The moth and spider are also beautiful. Spiders in the bathroom are OK but make me a bit nervous in the bedroom- Please, not when I am asleep!!

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    1. Yeah, no bugs in the bedroom. The annoying mosquito buzzing my ear is bad enough.

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  5. Codex: got a test for you. 9/10 for me. Scary.
    https://britannicaeducation.com/blog/quiz-real-or-ai/

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    1. I got 9 out of 10 correct. The first one, the frog, I got wrong. After that I examined the pictures a little more closely.

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    2. Same. Scary because I have a perfect yellow/blue poison dart frog painting and immediately went for it based on color although I realized that the texture of what it was sitting on was off.

      AI is getting too good with certain Im.ages. what will artists do?

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  6. I am glad that you finally got rain. I am equally sorry that your tomatoes failed. As for flags, I am not much in favour of these little coloured pieces of bunting that have all too often been used to foster division, hatred, jingoism and xenophobia.

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    1. I only ever put it out for three days; Memorial Day, Veteran's Day, and the 4th of July but there are people in this town who have one out all the time. I'm fine with flags as a symbol of a country, they all have one. But here at least it's worshipped by some people like a golden calf with some groups claiming ownership of patriotism.

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  7. Enjoy the time with your great-grandchild, it's such a good age and you and her have so much to teach each other.

    Your garden reports reminds me of our poor results garderning in a tropical climate, we lived 3 degrees south of the equator, almost daily short rainfall, very humid, temps rarely varied. Everything shot up beautifully, only to collapse or die or get infested and so on. We watched the locals and their rich harvest and eventually had some success with watering schedules (early, almost before sunrise, close to roots only) and mulching extensively around the roots at all times.
    We are having a spider year here, ours are tiny and yellowish and come in groups of possibly thousands, settling in corners and bicycle helmets and under the patio seat covers, they bite.
    I am not sure what my reaction would be to a wolf spider, the name alone . . .

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    1. then you'd probably really freak at it's full name...rabid wolf spider. It has nothing to do with rabies but a reference to the way it moves. Wolf spiders do bite but their bites aren't venomous so says the All Knowing Oracle though I don't know anybody that's been bitten by one. They are solitary creatures and usually just find a corner to set up home.

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  8. The first time I saw a wolf spider, I recoiled instinctively. Then, I learned that they're relatively gentle and no threat to us, and I calmed down around them. Now, jumping spiders? Those are my favorites. I keep trying to get a decent photo of our black and white ones -- especially those eyes! -- but they keep jumping away. Now, I'm off to make a quick trip to the closest grocery to get a few things before the next round of rain shows up. By radar, it looks like you're getting a good dose yourself.

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    1. I wonder what we look like to jumping spiders. You know when they are looking directly at you.

      We got about 3 1/2" total Monday through Tuesday morning. Another inch and three quarters today.

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  9. We are getting a good steady rain today so our grass is happy about that. I'm just not a fan of spiders. It's easy to find toys at resale shops and they are usually pretty cheap. I'm no gardener so I have no advice for you on that, Ellen.

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    1. Yeah, Marc was going to mow Tuesday but the rain put that off and it rained more today. No telling how high it will be when he next gets a chance.

      There's a pretty good resale shop here that has a selection of toys. I'll have to check it out. Mostly my problem is forgetting what almost 4 year olds like to play with.

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  10. Last week I saw a millipede in my bathroom (rather startling since it was headed for my bare foot) and THEN I saw the biggest cricket I've ever seen. No idea where either of them went. Here is an upside to my pretty severe tinnitus - I couldn't hear the cricket. In years past, I would have been losing my mind.

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    1. We get crickets in the house now and then. Impossible to find them because when you get close they shut up.

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  11. Oh, you mean - our President ISNT supposed to call its citizens SCUM on a holiday for fallen vets? - he's such a mess. It just ruins everything this country stands for.

    Spiders dont freak me out either - all bugs just sort of fascinate me. If you get to really look at them up close- its just amazing their features & how they function

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    1. I think bugs are fascination. So diverse and so otherworldly some of them. They're quite beautiful in their own way.

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  12. I agree - the USA I grew up in is not the USA we have now. Glad you got some rain at least, but too bad about the nervous dog! Poor thing!

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    1. It's really amazing how fast change can take place. Of course it wasn't really fast. These people have been planning and laying the groundwork for decades.

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