The days this week have been wet, overcast, cold, and dreary. We did get about 2 1/4” of rain last Monday so that was good. Days like this I plug the star lights in.
I’ve always been a Beatles fan. They were an extraordinary group whose music in the decade the band existed evolved dramatically. their output was astonishing, every album unique and better and better. Though at 15 in 1965 when I had a choice between seeing the Beach Boys or the Beatles live, I chose the Beach Boys because I was put off, and didn’t get, the whole delirious screaming of the girl fans that made it impossible to hear the music. Besides, I thought, I could go the next time they toured through Houston, only they quit touring soon after that so I never saw the Beatles live. And while Marc and I watched the Peter Jackson production of The Beatles: Get Back when it came out on Disney in 2021 which to me really highlighted the end stage of the Beatles and the dissolution of the band we had never seen the Beatles Anthology released in 1995…until this past week. The newly remastered and remixed Beatles Anthology 2025, the story of their meteoric rise from their Liverpool beginning and eventual dissolution of the band as told from the point of view of the individual surviving members of the band, including clips from recordings of interviews with John Lennon before his murder, with a new final episode 9 added on. It was wonderful to see George, Paul, and Ringo getting together and interacting after 25 years of water had flowed under the bridge, their genuine affection for each other. George Harrison’s remark at one point that he was only 23 when Sergeant Pepper’s came out in 1967 really brought home how young they were trying to just make music and deal with the worldwide fame and pressure. Anyway, we thoroughly enjoyed The Beatles Anthology 2025, streaming on Disney+, remembering that part of our youth and viewing the Beatles through their own eyes and recollections, four best friends who took the world by storm.
The Beatles Anthology interrupted what we had been watching and have returned to, American Gods on Amazon Prime based on the novel by Neil Gaiman of the same name. We’re were halfway through the first of three seasons and when we went back to it, episode 5 was not available, nor was episode 7 (of 8). We watched six and eight and supposedly there are two more seasons supposed to be available of amazon Prime, but they didn’t show up. Apparently, for #s 5 and 7, the license to show them ran out and I suppose for the other two seasons. I don’t know if we’ll be able to watch seasons 2 and 3 but the series was canceled before the end so no big loss I guess. I’m going to see if the new little book store has the book.
We are fully into my least favorite time of year, the Christmas ‘season’ which actually starts before Halloween with small displays of Christmas stuff. Now after Thanksgiving which barely gets a nod from retailers these days, it is full blown. Christmas music everywhere you go, one radio station plays nothing but, everything on tv is Christmas themed, the stress and the impossible expectations, the feeling that giving gifts is an obligation of the holiday, the ridiculous ‘war on Christmas’ that surfaces every year from those that refuse to accept or acknowledge all the other holidays that happen in December. I used to actively hate it and it would put me in a foul mood all month because, people get a fucking grip, it’s one day of the year, does it really have to start before Halloween? Now, not so much. As a non-Christian and anti all religion in general I just ignore it as much as possible which is easier to do out here instead of when I lived in the city. The closer it gets though the more often I’ll be asked if I’m ready for Christmas. My standard non-reply is, as ready as I ever am. Of course my kids and grandkids are grown, have aged out of the mandatory gift giving. Instead, if I see something I think someone would like I’ll gift it to them regardless of the time of year. That said, I will occasionally buy a holiday gift for someone but the point is not because I feel obligated to give a Christmas present and it so happens I have two gifts I intend to give this year. When I have a good pecan harvest, people get a pound of shelled pecans but that just coincides with this time of year. They’d get them if it was spring or summer.
If I did celebrate this time of year it would be the pagan roots of the winter solstice that has morphed into the Christian/secular Christmas; the return of the light; the yule log, decorating with evergreens, candles, the giving of small baskets of fruits and nuts or small tokens of nature. The early Christian Church rededicated this festival to the birth of their Savior in an attempt to bury paganism and impose the new religion same as they did the spring celebration and festival of Eostre (Ostara), the goddess of spring and fertility because they knew the common people would not give up their earth and nature based celebrations and festivals. I did set up a small altar last year with a cedar branch and a candle for the solstice. Perhaps I’ll do the same this year, add a few pecans and an orange.

Haven't done it in a while but I always enjoyed a big bonfire on the Solstice, the longest night of the year when all the beasties prowl in the dark
ReplyDeleteReminds me of the nights on the beach back when there was enough driftwood you could build a bonfire.
DeleteSo many people get so excited about Christmas and so many others dread it.
ReplyDeleteThe thing is if your life is easy and you are financially well off what's not to enjoy. But for many that's just not the case and the unrealistic expectations of "the season" just add a layer of guilt to already stressful times coupled with the fact that 90% of the shopping, baking, buying presents, etc falls to women who already are expected to do the lion's share of the workload day to day.
DeleteThen there are the atheists, and those who feel the sentiment is artificial, plus the expectation to be happy, difficult memories. So many expectations.
DeleteI can't think of a better gift than the pecans and oranges!! I eat a ton of both and am envious of your friends that live nearby and get fresh off the tree pecans. What a special treat! :).
ReplyDeleteI think I've shelled enough for all the gifts so now I'll be shelling for me. then I'll sell the rest.
DeleteThere are people who have entire storage areas filled with the things they decorate for Christmas with. The very thought makes me want to hide. I don't get it. I am not made that way. Even if someone IS religious- we have gone so far past celebrating the birth of a baby born to a virgin who has saved us from our sins that there's no connection between A and B.
ReplyDeleteThese feelings are definitely something you and I share.
I know, right! Growing up our house was decorated inside and out, spent a weekend putting it all out and up. And if you enjoy that, great. It turns out that while I loved it as a kid, doing it as an adult...not so much. Of course by then I was no longer a christian though when the kids were growing up we did Hannukah which basically just entailed lighting candles for 8 nights until I was over that in my 30s though I did make draedle shaped felt bags when they were young for candy and little stuff. The nativity barely gets a nod. Now it's just in your face commercialisation.
DeleteWhile I love the Christmas season, I despise the commercialization. That's one reason I appreciate the Advent season. While the world goes wild in malls and such, I decorate my tree, listen to lovely music, and make the same cookies my grandmother and mother made. It's great fun.
ReplyDeleteI gld you enjoy it. I rejected christian theology in my very early 20s and then all that's left is the commercialization. Too in-your-face. I do like the idea of it's pagan roots celebrating the solstice.
DeleteCodex: You could always celebrate the pagan roots and tell people that's what you're doing. The look on their faces...
ReplyDeleteI do wonder what they think sometimes. The form I filled out when I first volunteered asked which church or organization I represented. I wrote "humanity". When we have our twice yearly pot luck lunch they all gather in a circle and one of the men offers up a prayer. I stand there silent and respectful but I don't bow my head or amen at the end. I doubt anyone notices because they all have their heads bowed and eyes closed.
DeleteI was a Beatles' fan too. My favorite was George and I remember going to see their movies in the movie theater and screaming out his name. John and Paul were so popular that I thought I had a better chance with George! LOL!! ;)
ReplyDeleteI never favored one over the other. I wish I had a copy of Yellow Submarine to show my great granddaughter.
DeleteThe Gaiman series was suspended after multiple serious allegations of sexual abuse against him have come to light. I don't think he'll recover from it. There is a court case hanging over him in New Zealand.
ReplyDeleteI loved the Beatles, still do, but the Rolling Stones had a bigger pull eventually. My brother however is a lifelong dedicated fan and has quite the memorabilia collection. He also tormented us playing the red and the blue compilation albums more or less nonstop one summer during the family holidays until my father threatened to send him home early.
I had heard something about that but didn't realize they had canceled the series because of it. Dammit, why do successful men think they can sexually abuse women. Or any man for that matter.
DeleteI did see the Rolling Stones live in 1966 in Honolulu. I was even on the same plane with them (me coach, them first class) and never knew it though I did wonder why the attendants kept the curtain between tightly closed the whole flight.
The commercialization of Christmas seems to be increasing year over year. The unfortunate part is it sets a lot of unreasonable expectations for a lot of people that don't end well emotionally for them when reality sets in. I always enjoyed George the most, especially his work post Beatles, such as the Bob Dylan 30th Anniversary Concert and the Traveling Wilburys. Cheers!
ReplyDeleteI agree. It's so in-you-face nd sets up unreasonable expectations of "the most wonderful time of the year". If you are financially well off and life isn't throwing you curveballs it's easy but that's just not so for many many people.
DeleteI loved the Traveling Wilburys.
As an adult, I've never been much of a Christmas person. I think when you don't have kids of your own (or maybe if they're grown) the significance of the holiday pales quite a bit. Dave and I are happy with our single strand of colored lights. We might do a present or two, or we might not.
ReplyDeleteDidn't Neil Gaiman get canceled for something?
I'm a Beatles fan too. The more time elapses and the more rock acts that come and go, the more apparent it is how brilliant and perfectly balanced they were.
I think that's true. It became more and more irrelevant the older my kids and grandkids got. It's the forced gaity too. I do love all the outdoor light displays people put up though.
DeleteI have a love/hate relationship with Christmas. I love the church aspect of it - the advent services, the caroling, the extra singing... But I don't really like the social aspect (go figure) and I suck at gift giving. Ugh. My standard answer to are you ready for Christmas is always NO. Which would also work for you. Ha!
ReplyDeleteI think too much emphasis is put on the gift giving to the point that it's obligatory even if it's a crappy gift they won't like or use. Well, a simple no seems to beg an explantion of sorts.
DeleteYour little lights are charming- I love them. Christmas still gives me a buzz- sparkly and twinkle and the mystery of a jolly fat man bringing just what you wanted. I BELIEVE- Pagan time of the year is comforting, especially as it is so bleak out there ...I bring is a bowl full of moss and lichen- dead dried weeds that have been well blown over in the wind. I celebrate them. The Tomten caring for the barn animals...if I had a barn...I love the impishness of this season and the comfort of stew.
ReplyDeleteI could play Beatles and Stones music all day but i do like what Erik contributes when he is here- His choices are interesting- not common radio tripe but music that ignites a deep passion for life. It is new to my ears and my heart and I get it! When Erik leaves I forget about the music but my body remembers it. Merry Christmas Sparkle twinkle chime and love this life! It's good! I saw a thing on instagram last night- something about a guy dying and meeting up with his god , asking where he was going to go now that he was dead- His god said , well you are here- Did you enjoy heaven when you were there? Then the god listed all of the beauties of this world , this life and concluded that there was no other heaven... for some reason that struck me because I am the world's most enthusiastic curmudgeon, moaner, pessimist old bat. This planet is the best, most beautiful place to be alive on, and yes we have fucked it over and are a mean species- but "for the good times"....there go you, there go I.
Merry Krimbo- make it your own- bring in a patch of nature- build a little alter to her.
DeleteI'm perfectly happy for others to enjoy it and get with the program. I just wish the in-your-face bs didn't start before Halloween. I love this life too and this planet. I plan to set up a little altar for the Solstice, the true root and meaning of all the modern hullabaloo but that's it. A simple little acknowledgement not shared. I love the anecdote...did you enjoy Heaven? Truer words...
DeleteI loathe the obligatory gift giving. If I want to give you something, the season does not matter. When we moved to Missouri, I called a halt to gift giving to anyone over the age of 18. The magic of Christmas is for children, and one gift should be sufficient. My children's in-laws all tried to out gift us for the grandchildren. Too bad they didn't realize that we were unimpressed and would not be upping our giving to compete with them. For my granddaughter's graduation, we gave her $100. The other grandparents gave her $1000 and made a point of sharing the news with me. So many things I wanted to say but just smiled and walked away. I am still her favorite Gramma, she can't be bought. The Beatles music is timeless. My son plays occasionally with a band and is a big fan. This impressed my first grandson so much so that he named our Collie after his uncle's favorite band. Sort of ... he named our dog Sargent Pepper.
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