Friday, August 8, 2025

who is that person in the mirror?


I think all my wrinkles underwent mitosis the other day.


I did take the truck over on Sunday and gathered up all the pruned branches off the white orchid shrub and the tallow tree and the vines of the virginia creeper and Eric emptied it onto the burn pile for me. Eric works with my grandson Mikey at the same auto repair shop and he and his wife rent a room in my daughter’s house (long story about how that came to be but it’s working out well for all parties) and so Eric is often over at the shop too after hours and weekends. Works for me. The boys are quick to help me with whatever I need. And since Paisleigh was also there on Sunday she tagged along with me. We ‘played chalk’ and she’s getting better at drawing a hopscotch and writing the numbers with a little help and guidance and then we came in and played doctor with one of the stuffed toys. Then she wanted to look at some pictures on my computer and when we got to the picture of the carrots I pulled the other day we went out and she pulled a carrot for her Pop Pop (my son in law) for him to cook and eat.

Then we looked at more pictures and then she wanted to write with my keyboard on the computer and this is what she wrote:  l pxooxaos-0qs0iqi  q os oq  iiufhofofooioir4utlkkhdjjcjkjkkjksjkjglllhskslljfojf’lofjrfhfljj. Then we played taking a nap and after that I took her back to her dad over at the shop so that I could go back home and take a shower and an actual nap. Only I sat quietly and read for a while instead.


I caught my neighbor Gary on Monday coming back from his evening walk and while he doesn’t have a pole chain saw he has a pole saw and he said he’d come cut the branches for me the next day, which he did Tuesday morning cutting more of the high branches above the weatherhead and some that were close to the end of the house. 


So already I have another load of branches to pick up and haul to the burn pile including a pile at my house from Monday when a windstorm blew through bringing a little rain that dropped a bunch of small to medium branches and one fairly large limb. I love that my house is surrounded by trees but why do they have to all be ones that self prune and drop branches all the time! 


Small forays out in the yard Wednesday, watered the plants in pots in the morning then later dead headed the zinnias which are still blooming but waning. Flowers are smaller and some of the smaller plants have died back. Pulled a few weeds. This will be the modus operandi for the foreseeable future entering the dog days of summer. 


Last spring you might remember that I moved a bigger table into the barn to keep my gardening and potting stuff on and put up a small shelf which almost immediately wasn’t big enough. I cut a longer shelf board a while back and today I finally put it up where the short shelf was and then put the short shelf underneath it. 


The mexican bird of paradise, also called pride of barbados, is still blooming as is the rangoon creeper,


the morning glory bush, 


the aforementioned zinnias, and the yellow bells.


On a closer look this young lady was looking for her next meal. She’s only about 2” right now but will get much bigger.




30 comments:

  1. Codex: Always fascinated by praying mantises. Manti? Such odd looking creatures when you think about it.

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    1. She has staked out her territory. I find her in the same place every day.

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  2. Paisleigh looks very proud of that carrot! The flowers are looking beautiful. And I spent the whole morning clearing stuff in our garden, so I know where you're coming from on all that work. (I wish we had a burn pile, but alas, we do not.)

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    1. I can only do an hour or so at a time in this heat but I'm still managing to get tasks done.

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  3. Child with a carrot- what a nice gift for a Dad- for anyone actually, I would accept that gift! Sweet little girl.

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    1. I'm lucky that her dad brings her with him often when he's over across the street working.

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  4. Wrinkles? We don't have wrinkles we have age adjusted skin surfaces. Your carrots are impressive.

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  5. Children have a sense of wonder about everything. It’s so endearing.

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    1. I think 3 is just about my favorite age. The sense of wonder and the unconditional love.

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  6. There are morning glory BUSHES! I knew not!

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    1. I'll include a picture of the whole bush next post. Ipomoea fistulosa.

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  7. Girl. I swear. I am very glad to be losing some weight, gaining mobility, feeling better in my body but the crepey skin is ALARMING! It's getting worse every day and I know for a fact it's only going to get worse. There is zero elasticity left in this hide of mine. But- as with wrinkles, what are we to do? I guess we should be grateful that no one ever died from wrinkles or crepey skin and also glad that we can still get out and do hard things with these bodies of ours.
    Your flowers are a joy.

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    1. Oh yeah, the crepey skin is worse than the wrinkles. I've started wearing capri yoga pants instead of shorts in the summer so I don't have to see my crepey thighs in down dog. Now if it will just get cold enough for long sleeves.

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  8. I always love it when Paisleigh comes over. She's so busy!

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    1. She wears me out. And I've usually already been working out in the yard when she sees me and comes running over.

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  9. I hear you on the mitosis. It can stop anytime.

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    1. Yes. I have enough wrinkles thank you very much.

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  10. The concept of a self-pruning tree made me grin. It reminded me of Annie Dillard's suggestion that trees aren't really very economical, given that they drop their leaves every year and then regrow them. Wouldn't it be better, she mused, for them just to hang on to them from year to year? Think of the energy savings!

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    1. I guess but then we wouldn't have that lovely spring green.

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  11. My son and 3 grandchildren from Manvel, TX are visiting as it is my birthday weekend (75 like you!). They brought the heat here. ;)

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    1. I can think of better birthday presents than texas heat. Happy birthday!

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  12. Paisley is a little doll! I have been mulching all day long. I also cut back all the lilies and now everything looks so low to the ground. My niece wants to come "shop" in my gardens. I am already growing a hollyhock for her. It has rained every day here for weeks! While I am happy that I don't have to water, I think some of my vegetables are not producing because of the rain.

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    1. I finally mulched two areas today with the pine needles my friend brought me last April. I've had to set the sprinkler out in my flower beds the last two days though we did get a brief shower, not nearly enough.

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  13. I just got a comment on Lagniappe about the miller's maid plant -- I nearly dumped as spam. The "name" was nothing but a jumble of letters and numbers, and although your name was included in the email address, it wasn't the address you've used in the past and your name differed as well. Was it actually you?

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    1. Yes, I mindlessly hit the comment button before filling out the email and website slots which I always do.

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    2. This was the comment, which sounds like you: "Tiny flowers on such a long scape. And that small opening into them, I suppose ants and small beetles are the pollinators." But this was the "name" attached to the comment: full509b2cb96b1

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    3. Yes, me, my comment. Forgot to fill out the identifying info before hitting the comment button.

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    4. Got it! Good to know someone didn't hack your account.

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  14. I'm realizing I tolerate cold way better than heat. Between the Canadian smoke and the heat dome, I've been inside most of the month.

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