Tuesday, August 1, 2017

summer heat and summer visits


Yesterday was the last day of July and now we head into the dog days of August, although the forecast for the first week shows lower temperatures than we had this past week, which went into triple digits, the hot south wind blowing across the field behind us like the heat that comes out of an oven. We might even get some rain. Yesterday morning at 8 AM, it was still relatively cool out, operative word here being 'relatively', and while we will be hovering in the low 90s and maybe even the high 80s this week, I saw that Portland, Oregon is predicted to hit 106˚ or higher. It hasn't even been that hot down here on the Gulf Coast plains. There is something seriously wrong when the Northwest gets hotter than we do.

In another couple of weeks, the twins will head off to their first year of college. It doesn't look like they will manage a couple of days here as there is still much to do before they leave and we have spent a week with them this summer, just not here. We did get a drop in visit from our 20 year old grandboy the other night. Drove all the way out here to spend about an hour and then drove back as he had to be at work at 8 AM the next day. Used to be I would have to chase him down to give him a hug under protest when he left after visiting, then a few years ago he started giving me one of those side hugs. The other night when I went to hug him as he was leaving he gave me an honest to god bear hug. First time ever!

Summers have gotten less busy. The only summer grandchild left is Robin. They all out grew the regular spring and winter break visits, when all four would come years ago, about the time they were old enough to stay at home by themselves but they kept up their summer visits.

And so, I picked up Robin on a Friday with the plan to return her on the following Monday not a week but hey, I'll take what I can get. We stopped at Trader Joe's and Costco on the return to lay in some supplies. At Costco I bought 2 cartons of blueberries, one carton of strawberries, one carton of raspberries. I had bought a carton of Rainier cherries at a previous stop that we had already polished off and Robin ate all the raspberries on the way home. By the time she left she had eaten all that fruit plus nearly all of a watermelon, besides just regular food. That may not sound very impressive if you've never shopped at Costco.

Anyway, she wanted to get her haircut so I made the appointment for Saturday and of course there is no 'before' picture but it was longer and no bangs


after which we poked around in a couple of shops 


until we got hungry, drove out to get the honey I thought I had arranged to buy but apparently there was a breakdown in communication, and then back for lunch and then we made a lemon tart.


She couldn't decide which movie she wanted to see so I bribed her with an extra night to see both. 


Sunday we went to El Campo to see the new Spiderman and Monday we went to see Baby Driver in Rosenberg.


I was supposed to take her back on Tuesday but she decided that since it was like being at home here only she didn't have to get her own food and there was more variety, she'd stay another night.


Wednesday though, I did return her home.




14 comments:

  1. I so understand where you and your grands are at this moment in time. I know this will be the last summer of fun that GK and Ry and I have together as a band of fools. GK will be a senior and Ry is doing his last year of middle school. How has time just run away with the little grands moments? xoxo Oma Linda

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    1. how can they be this big so fast? no more little ones for me which is sad. well, until the grands start having babies and I plan to be here for that.

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  2. Love that bear hug - maybe it's a trend! And I sure don't blame Robin - I would hang out at your house too :)

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  3. Are those ice cream cones on your carpet?
    I need a bear hug. If the grand boy transfers to Peninsula, I'll wait for him on the curb.

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    1. that's the carpet at the theater. I think they are supposed to be cartons of popcorn.

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  4. My grandchildren seemed to have grown up faster than my own children. Now the visits are not as often and their teenage lives are busier. It is to be expected but I do miss those times we had together when I was a VIP in their lives.

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    1. same here. when Jade was about 3 or 4 and I was visiting at their house she would fall down and grab me by the leg to prevent me from leaving. I would have to drag her all the way to the door as she clung to my ankle.

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  5. Every time Owen or Gibson voluntarily hugs me I think of this will not always happen. Especially Owen now, because he is getting so tall. Oh, Ellen, I've been feeling weepy all day long and this post has actually brought the tears to my eyes. I hope you know how you've enriched those children's lives with your love and time and attention and care. You probably do, but I just wanted to tell you that I know it too.

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  6. Sometimes getting goodies I get one package for the way home and one to make it there when I have kids around

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  7. I like that she has the bangs, but enough length to pull the rest back! Looks good at the theater.
    Our 22 year old grandson has FINALLY said "I love you, too!" A couple of times! And has even removed himself from his car, as he was leaving, to "give me a proper hug"(his words!) more than once. I have enjoyed seeing and reading about your grandchildren, Ellen. At least a relationship like yours helps make the world seem a little more normal.

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  8. I aspire to be a grandmother like you.

    Please enjoy your weather while it gets to be 110 here in western OR this week. Crazy! But maybe they are wrong.

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  9. How great that the two of you enjoy each other's company so much.

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  10. Well, it sounds like she clearly enjoyed spending all that time with you! Two extra days! That antique shop looks awesome.

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  11. Love the hair cut, she would look adorable without any hair, though. Great to spend kid time...it is so fleeting.

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